LoVe Is A gAmBLe..

discussed about this again..
i sound so pro when i explained my rationale..
we man, cannot predict the future...
but yes.. wadever choices u make now, will affect ur future eventually...
y do some pple hold back so much when they r deciding whether or not to commit, whether or not to give their all?
becoz they care..
n it's not wrong..
but it's not entirely right either..
at least in my opinion...
it's gd tt u r thinking about the consequences..
wad if it fails?
can we still be frens?
will he/she hate me?
will i hurt him/her?
will i get myself hurt? bla bla bla...

u have matured if u consider the other party's feelings..
it's perfectly right to do so..
but wad u think it's best for the 2 of u, might not be the case in his/her opinion...
wad gives u the right to decided sth tt will affect not just u, but the both of u?

ok i am digressing.. so y my title?
becoz.. when u come to a cross road..
when u have to make decisions.. to do it or not, pple tend to hesitate..
whether to step into a r/s or not..
it's just like gambling.. f
or instance, in the game of roulette....
the smallest bet is 10 bucks..
if u choose not to place any bet, u dun take any risk..
yes u wont lose anything..
but u wont gain anything..

if u place ur bet, if u tried, there's a possiblity tt u will lose tt 10 bucks..
but there's also a possibility of gaining..
strictly speaking.. min 10, max 350 bucks of winnings..
so.. would u place ur bet?

i would in most cases..
how would i place my bets?
tt will depend on how much i have with me..
if u never try, u will never find ur answers..
one of my fav quotations, wad lived with me thru my 6 years of softball:

"I can accept failure, but I cannot accept not trying" ~ Micheal Jordan